The friend, the brother I call Sergius, It's been a privilege (honour is the word) to know a game-changer like you and time alone will expose the profound positive impact you had in many lives. The Heavens are joyous to receive an Angel like you but we mourn your early departure for, as in Heaven, you had so much to enrich humanity on earth. As our stormy tears bemoan your drift afield I implore you to persist in your duty and keep watch on us all, from your beautiful wife and kids and family to the innumerable communities which called you friend and brother.
Your story is of a life that will always be retold, a life of humility in the face arrogance, of contriteness for defiance and of courteous goodwill challenging hypocrisy and untrustworthiness. Therefore KE, out of this painful, undiminishing heartbreak of your bowing out I will seek refuge in your demise, from the strength of your personality I will find solace and as a people we shall strive to view the world as KE would have approached it.
This crossing of the desert will not be in vain my brother, every step will echo the wind of your gentle spirit and by Jove we shall complete our crossing. While you rest, we go back to the drawing board scarred yet emboldened, broken yet unbowed, and the ways of the world, gleaned from your selfless soul will be less daunting as we learn to make our peace with our fellow man. Fare you well and make ready a room for us.
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| Nicholas KABA | You'll Never Walk Alone | February 1, 2017 |
| Hendrick Polanco | My deepest condolences | January 25, 2017 |
My deepest condolences. May these few words from the Holy Scriptures bring you comfort in your time of grief...
John 11:32-45
32 And so Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; 34 and he said: “Where have YOU laid him?” They said to him: “Lord, come and see.” 35 Jesus gave way to tears. 36 Therefore the Jews began to say: “See, what affection he used to have for him!” 37 But some of them said: “Was not this [man] that opened the eyes of the blind man able to prevent this one from dying?”
38 Hence Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it.39 Jesus said: “TAKE the stone away.” Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to him: “Lord, by now he must smell, for it is four days.”40 Jesus said to her: “Did I not tell you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Therefore they took the stone away. Now Jesus raised his eyes heavenward and said: “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 True, I knew that you always hear me; but on account of the crowd standing around I spoke, in order that they might believe that you sent me forth.” 43 And when he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice: “Laz´a·rus, come on out!” 44The [man] that had been dead came out with his feet and hands bound with wrappings, and his countenance was bound about with a cloth. Jesus said to them: “Loose him and let him go.”
45 Therefore many of the Jews that had come to Mary and that beheld what he did put faith in him;
Please go to the following link for more information regarding the Hope expressed in this passage
http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/dead-live-again-tract/dead-live-again
| John Akosa | Rest In Peace young brother.. | January 21, 2017 |
Kenny,
Apart from my family members, you are one of the few people who call me by my middle name. I will miss your honest advice and encouragement with your signature smile.
Don't forget to tell Ivo I said hi.
So long Kenny.
Apart from my family members, you are one of the few people who call me by my middle name. I will miss your honest advice and encouragement with your signature smile.
Don't forget to tell Ivo I said hi.
So long Kenny.
| Gwen A | My Boy | January 16, 2017 |
I am still in SHOCK, but we can't question the ALMIGHTY. I know that GOD wanted you to come and create an ORACLE DATABASE in HEAVEN. For over 20 yrs I knew I can count on you no matter the situation. You were a great friend and confidant. Your kind and humble personality will NEVER be forgotten. I pray that your family find strength during this difficulty time. Your wife, children, family, friends and the entire universe have gain a special guardian angel. Say hello to my bro.
ADIEU MY BOY!!!!!
ADIEU MY BOY!!!!!
| Joki Manga | Mr | January 15, 2017 |
Kenny your sudden departure has left us your classmates and friends speechless,Oh KE why?.I can vividly remember on the 15/09/1979,when we entered Sasse College in form one, you and other mates from Buea as some of us from Limbe were complaining of the cold weather ,you said as a joke that we should carry our blanket with us to protect ourselves from cold.Our time we spend in Sasse College was like brothers from one family.We went for adventures to the orchard to harvest fruits, we went swimming at Mountain hotel during school outings.You have decided to leave us your classmates to join your ancestors without any notice. Go well my dear classmate,friend and brother may you find a place in the Lords Kingdom.Adieu KE,Adieu Sergius Whyte
| Samira Edi | Death Is Nothing At All -- You Are Still Here | January 15, 2017 |
It is deeply painful for me to write this tribute to you, my beloved cousin, KE, with the certainty of fact that you’re no more! Your loss marks an irreparable dent on the shell of our lives forever; leaving us with a prickly reminder that as we go about the vicissitudes of our existence, worrying over trivia and gossamer fluff, we’re only mere mortals—and the playthings in the hands of the gods.
For who can explain why it was you the Most Beloved—the most beloved father and husband, the most beloved brother and cousin, the most beloved child, the most beloved friend, the most beloved colleague—a young, hardworking man with everything to live for and enjoy on this fragile blue marble of ours called earth—that will be snatched from within our midst, like precious gemstones lost in the deep or stolen by a thief?
As I sink unhappily into my gloomy despair, there’s only one consolation to be had for me—you’ve left many with fond memories of how beautiful life can be when we’re in the company of good people. Because you were good, KE, my beloved brother. You did nothing wrong. You worked hard, you smiled widest, you loved unconditionally, you laughed heartily, you stayed loyal, kind and generous and you spread that beam of sunshine that radiates truly only from a great soul.
Some of my fondest childhood memories were spent with you. A particular halcyon summer in Mamfe, some 30 odd years ago with our sister Maureen Esabe, and brothers Felix and Jude Anoma is cherished forever. I remember when you took Maureen and me to the Hanging Bridge, and we were so frightened of crossing that we made a brave attempt on it by crawling only a few inches on our bellies before giving up—which left you laughing in stitches. Another hilarious moment is when you were in CCAST Bambili and you visited me in PSS with a friend of yours. I remember how our strict and enthusiastic principal chased the other chap, caught him and gave him a humiliating dust-bath before sending him on his way. But you stayed with me, a perfect gentleman, with nothing to fear, you remained unruffled in the face of the principal’s bloviating threats and left with your dignity intact (while laughing over the fate of your friend.) Again, we were together, here in England—you had just left my home when the fury of the terrorists struck in a wide campaign of bombing in London—on that dark day of infamy now called 7/7. We survived that horror. Our last family Christmas together; jamming to Karaoke beats of Hot Shot and I Will Survive at Uncle Makoge’s house in Laurel, was a thing of beautiful family togetherness that will never be replicated without you.
Enome, you have left us inconsolably bereft. If there’s ever a time when pretence of courage failed to mask one's sorrow, this is it for me. As we wonder why you, a man in fine fettle, so loved by so many had to succumb to his own mortality alone in the middle of the road, it serves as a metaphor for our own existence. We move in company, but when it is our time, we shuffle off this mortal coil alone—for that is fate. All we can hope for is that we leave others with fond memories of love, respect and esteem as you did, even with a deep gorge of pain gnawing at our insides.
Rest In Peace, my beloved cousin, and please keep my seat warm for me.
Love Always, from your cousin Samira N Edimesumbe.
| Paulinus Akosa | Trying Not To Ask Why!!! The Decision Is Lord's!!! | January 15, 2017 |
Kenny, I know for sure you would not have gone away just like that if you knew how devastated your loving and caring wife (Rosemary), your kids (Karl and Ryan), my wife, myself and kids (Gael, Carrington, Obi and Eu-Eu) who will sit on your laps and call you “my uncle Kenneth”….you would not have gone if you knew how devastated your brothers and sisters, your family members, your friends and the community at large would be. The Lord used you, my brother, my best friend, loved by all (especially my late mother), loved by all my brothers and sisters, loved by my extended family in Nigeria, loved by those who have met you and those who only heard about you. RIP my dear brother till we meet again!!!!
| Isabel Abba-Mesue | Fare ye well | January 13, 2017 |
Kenny G, I am blessed to have known you. There are too few people like you, slow to anger and full of kindness. The first day I met you you literally took the clothes off your back to keep me warm. My heart breaks for Rosemary and the kid, but by God's grace you are watching over them still. Your physical presence will be greatly missed but you will live in their hearts and in the hearts of those whose lives you so dearly touched. Rest in peace my friend.
Isa
Isa
| Vera (SOS Children's Villages | Heaven welcomes an Angel | January 13, 2017 |
I kept trying to understand the message when your sister Sylvie-my friend and colleague informed me about your demise. I didnt know you personally yet I knew you still because Sylvie will always say something about her super big brother. The world still need you but Heaven craved for you too. You didnt die! You were translated! Your footprints and memories are forever. You responsibly played the role of a dad to your siblings and kids. I find peace to say that God has taken over that role on your behalf. My heartfelt condolence to the Ndelles. May God grant you all the fortitude to bear this loss. Earthly Loss, Heaven's Gain. Big brother, Continue to rest in the Lord till we meet to part no more.
| Patricia Abba Chapron | Still can't Fathom | January 13, 2017 |
I still can't believe you are gone Kenny G (as was known by some). Your signature smile and dimples are going to be missed forever. I have never seen anybody who always had a smile on his face no matter the circumstance.I remember seeing you not too long ago at work and you were complaining about something but you still had a smile on your face. Who does that .....complains with a smile on their face? Only you....because that was your gift from God.
As you have moved on to embark on a new journey, I pray that may God's peace surround and comfort your family during this transition!
RIP big bro!
As you have moved on to embark on a new journey, I pray that may God's peace surround and comfort your family during this transition!
RIP big bro!
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